Queer Dying

The Queer Dying Circle

Maybe you have been thinking about death for a long time.

Maybe something has happened in your life and/or community that has you thinking and feeling more about death.

Join queer folks to explore the Queer Dying Workbook. We will gather online weekly to get morbidly curious in community.

We will co-create queer culture(s) around death and dying.

Over the cycle of a year you will have the opportunity to explore:

Waves- Feelings about death and dying

Bones- Some practicalities of death and dying

Wings- Communicating about death and dying

Blooms- Offerings, remembrance and ritual

Here’s what you get when you subscribe:

A print copy of the Queer Dying Workbook mailed to you
A welcome and orientation call with captain
A chance to meet weekly to go through the workbook together.
Access to weekly live facilitated explorations of wings, waves, bones and blooms
A supportive system of accountability to get your end of life planning done!
Queer dying community
Access to a co-created community resources page
One on one check in call with captain when you begin or renew your subscriptions
A death care community with strong values around solidarity, community care and finding ways of being together that create alternatives to systems that cause harm.

We meet Mondays 5:00-7:00pm Pacific Time on Zoom

(with a 15 minute hang-out time at the end as we aspire to easeful transitions)

Upon sign up you will schedule an orientation to the culture call with captain as this group can be joined at anytime!

Launching February 3rd, 2025

Waves

How we Feel about Death and Dying

Wings

Communicating about End of Life Desires

Blooms

Queering End of Life Ritual and Ceremony

Bones

The Practicalities of End of Life

Circle Holder

captain (they/m) I am a genderqueerdo-trans-radical-fae-witch-faggot that is currently doing art (work, life, play) with sex, joyful accountability, queer dying, poetry and embodiment. I am a scotish-english-irish settler living on the territory of the Lekwungen and WSÁNEĆ peoples on Vancouver Island in (so called Canada). My background is in social justice, street outreach, anti-violence, harm reduction, somatic sex education and writing. I have a doctorate in human sexuality and have studied in the End of Life Doula Program at Douglas College and Contemplative End of Life Care at the Institute of Traditional Medicine in Toronto.

I am at my happiest in a body of water.

Choose a Pricing Option/ Place on the Sliding Scale

(I choose the subscription system to centre pleasure in my life rather than admin work)

$500 every 3 months

Orange- 3 month subscription

Consider this level if 1+ of the following apply: You are comfortably able to meet your basic needs as well as your basic wants, have reliable employment and/or income that gives you livelihood, own car, own a home or rent a higher end property, have access to financial savings (yours, family’s, or others’), have investments, can afford to travel every year, have expendable income.

This is a subscription product billed on a quarterly basis until you cancel. Cancel anytime from the account management page.

$300 every 3 months

Pink- 3 month subscription

Please Note: This is the level we need most people to choose in order to cover our expenses and pay ourselves a living wage. Consider this level if 1+ of the following apply: you meet your basic needs regularly but meet basic wants less easily, somewhat reliable employment and/or income, are able to buy some new items and thrift others, can travel every couple/few years without burden, have some debt but it does not prevent access to basic needs/wants.

This is a subscription product billed on a quarterly basis until you cancel. Cancel anytime from the account management page.

$150 every 3 months

Purple- 3 month subscription

Consider this level if 1+ of the following apply: have very limited expendable income, are unemployed or have unstable employment but are still able to meet basic needs, have little or no access to savings or financial support from family, have debt that requires some sacrifices on needs/wants

This is a subscription product billed on a quarterly basis until you cancel. Cancel anytime from the account management page.

$1,000

One year

$100

The Queer Dying Circle

Here’s what you get when you subscribe:

We meet Mondays 5:00-7:00pm Pacific Time on Zoom

Launching February 3rd, 2025

Waves

Wings

Blooms

Bones

Circle Holder

Choose a Pricing Option/ Place on the Sliding Scale

Orange- 3 month subscription

Pink- 3 month subscription

Purple- 3 month subscription

Consider this level if 1+ of the following apply: have very limited expendable income, are unemployed or have unstable employment but are still able to meet basic needs, have little or no access to savings or financial support from family, have debt that requires some sacrifices on needs/wants

One year

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